He is outgoing and gregarious. She is a little more reserved...until you get to know her! We both like to work out and are getting back into our fitness routine. He likes to lead in the bedroom but also likes instructions from his playmates. She usually follows directions pretty well but don't expect her to be a good sub all the time. We like playing with other couples even if it is side by side play...but we prefer sharing more. We like to stay away from straight couple swaps but would rather have our play incorporate each other as well as our playmates. We would also love to find that elusive unicorn to amp up our bedroom play! She is up for all sorts of play and suggestions to increase the fun in the bedroom...he is willing to suggest and carry out wishes!!