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Re: Trying to work things out after being apart for 6 months... 18/7/2004
Fornication1985,
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Speaking from experience, there is no good way to make up
after being apart. There will always be hard feelings about
something or something else that will come between you
somewhere down the line. I have tried this a few times and
it never works. No matter how much the one says they’ll forgive
the other, there is really no way to forget what ...
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re How should I do this? 17/7/2004
All depends on your situation - you married - lots of trouble
- living together - still lots - just dating - thats easier
- whatever way the best way is to be honest and just out right
tell her - no matter what you do its going to hurt her but she
might be in the same boat as you - good luck!!
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not the same person, personality change in 6 days 17/7/2004
I have been in a relationship for 6 years , I gave her everything,
she lived a good life.One day she went on a trip to visit friends
in NSW and then home to VIC to visit
her Mum , Dad and pregnant sister , the total days away from
me 6 days. When I pick he up from the airport, and gave her
a hug and kiss , she felt very cold towards me.
The next day I fronted her up, I said Ok spit it out ...
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Just cant leave her 17/7/2004
Answer .... ONE OF YOU HAS TO CHANGE.
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Since it ain't gonna be her ... YOU HAVE TO CHANGE.
You cannot change her - only you.
When ONE PERSON CHANGES in a Relationship, for the better,
the other person .... if given lots of space, time, and left
to make up their own mind .... will CHANGE to KEEP YOU.
IF YOU CHANGE, and she does not follow you and get along with
you so you ...
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Trying to work things out after being apart for 6 months.... 17/7/2004
First of all, you are LYING to yourself.
What you are getting from her being nice to you and all those
"great times" is truly false.
You need to LOOK DEEP INSIDE yourself and figure out WHAT
you get out of seeing or talking to her again.
IT IS HOPE.
It fills your fantasy of RE-UNITING and HER LOVING YOU AGAIN.
This takes a LOT OF WORK because SHE IS SCARED.
She does not want to take ...
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break up and make up 16/7/2004
.I broke up with my ex-man because he is not hard working,
he is lazy and always around me at work, i got this guy who
was hard working and loving as wel, i fell in love with him
although i was with my ex-man, because i have been trying
to tel my ex-man to get himself a job and he feel reluctant
about it. Now am in a relationship with another man , but
i have other feelings for my ...
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RE:Sucks but I had to do it 16/7/2004
Man you have a cold heart, sorry but you did the wrong thing
and the worst thing was you had no remorse. Ever watch shallow
hal? I bet you can relate to that film as you are very shallow.
The fact that you can leave someone who you were willing
to devote your life with for someone who was 'hotter'
than her means that you think with the brain in your penis.
My two cents anyway.
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Just cant leave her 15/7/2004
A little taste of confusion. I've been with this women
for seven and a half years and weve been breaking up for seven.
She just happens to be the first women who really loved me
with all her heart, and thats not the problem as I love her
also.
The problem as I see it is we just arent good together, both
our lives go to shit in a short amount of time after we get
back together, as we ...
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why do men cheat 13/7/2004
Ok this is my thing i have been happly married for almost
4 years and my husband is in the airfore. I have always trusted
him with all my heart. He went away last month to astralia
on a tdy with the airforce. When he came home he told me that
he cheated on me and he LOVED her. How the hell he can love
someone after just knowing them for 2 weeks and break up
a 5 year realtionship i have no ...
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friend or foe 13/7/2004
Do most break ups have to be so bad or can you really be able
to be friends afterwards. Most of the guys i have gone out
with i dont talk to anymore and i guess its just move of a move
on with my life kinda thing, but dont know if i could be friends.
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Why are some girls crazy?? 12/7/2004
I broke up with this girl years ago and I got the arms swinging
and the mouth screaming. After I calmed her down she asked
why I was doing it. When I told her it was due to things like
what just happened she got all crazy again. Its not like
I was mean about it. I just told her things wouldn't
work and we should go are seperate ways and we were young
and should see what it was like out side ...
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she still touches me 10/7/2004
why does my ex-girlfriend still touch me affectionately
when we are not dating any more? what does this mean, and
how am i to deal with it?
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what do u do when you break up with the one you love 10/7/2004
well i know some people when they break up they have to go
get a stif drink and tell the bartender how your life just
ended cause the one you love cheated on you with your best
friend and you did everthing for your partner and they still
cheated on you..well golly says the bartender have another
drink on me my wife did the sane thing to me...
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Break up in person? 9/7/2004
Do you think it's better to break up in person, as opposed
to over the phone?
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When I was younger 5/7/2004
When I was younger I use to get my friends to tell them I was'nt
entrested in them eny more.But now I find it more fun to tell
them my self.You ask them out for drink and when hes had a
lot to drink you tell them you love them very much but it's
not woring.You have started to look on them as a brother
and not as a boy friend as soon as you say that your fine. ...
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And years later we still have sex 4/7/2004
The planets lined up when we met. Some 20 years later after
my ex-girlfriend of maybe only 2 years still even after
getting married changing her last name and having 2 girls
with the guy and later divorcing him will still give me the
pussy. Think about that a moment. Somewhere along those
years we reinvented the wheel. We do not see each other often
so maybe that's why every few years or so ...
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RE: why They Keep Coming back 4/7/2004
Alot of people go and fall back to what they know and what
is comfortable, the other possiblity is that they realized
they made a mistake, but pride keeps them from admitting
it. I'm friends with most of the people I've broken
up with, and with some I am friends with benifits, I know
and they know that we will most likely never have more than
that, but that does not stop us from having fun ...
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men can really suck... 3/7/2004
im so tierd of men saying they love you just for a little ass
and then when they get it they dont want you anymore why is
that..if you just want ass then say it dont tell us u love
us and then say u dont mean it ...
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I BIG BOWL OF ICE CREAM AND A BEST FRIEND 1/7/2004
It happens everyday and everybody takes it different.
Some moan and groan and wine and complain, others slip into
a deep state of depression, some are just in shock for awhile,
while others could just care less.
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Breaking up with somebody can be the hardest thing you have
to do especialy if you've been in a relationship for
along period of time. It's never really that easy. ...
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re:How do you know when it's over.....before it's over? 1/7/2004
When you're leaving to go out of town for a week and she's
"too tired" to have sex.
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Breaking up hard to do? 29/6/2004
From what I've been through and from what I've
seen, people can be cold, calculating mean sob's.
The term breaking up is hard to do was probably derived from
some poor soft souled person that didn't want to hurt
the other persons feelings (or so they say) more likely
it was a guilty consience on that persons behalf that made
them think it would be difficult to break up.
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...
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Need glasses to see it coming? 25/6/2004
Ok, ladys, the one thing I hate is when you think you can controle
your man by using sex as a treat only. I have been in a elationship
for almost 5 years now and I have never cheated. Not once!!
I have always been the good guy, all my life, I do not lie.
It is to much of a pain in the ass to keep up with. I really love
the person im with, but I have a high sex drive. I want it all
the time, ...
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And so she flew away.... 23/6/2004
She left nearly a year ago, I packed her things, shipped
them to her. Took the pictures off the walls.. Got drunk,
that only lasts so long...
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The holidays came, and the memories of the things that are
gone to the winds of time, never again to be shared. Telling
my that no, she is not coming back.
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I know that there is a point where it no longer hurts, and ...
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Lesbians and boys 23/6/2004
if your relationship is going good except for love. should
it be ended just because love isnt there but friendship,
fun, great sex is?
dont like=no excellent=yes
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Manners and Respect cost nothing 23/6/2004
Recently I got chatting to someone on here who is currently
living in another country. We appeared to get on like a house
on fire and so the texts emails faxes and calls all mounted
up. Things appeared to be going very well and we made an arrangement
to meet the next time he was due to come over to the UK. He appeared
to be an honest kind genuine person and against my better
judgement I ...
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Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? 21/6/2004
My fiance and I have been together for 10 years and engaged
for about 3 of those. I am 35 and he is 30. After all these years
and everything we have been through he hasn't wanted
to get married until now. I had told him that I was done waiting
for him to deceide when he finally wanted to get married.
Now that I feel that the relationship is over and I don't
feel the same for him because of ...
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Resilient X wife 20/6/2004
Is it just me?
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I am recently divorced from a 7 year marriage, one where
things just weren't there personaly or emotionaly,
and our sex life was all but non existant.((once a month
just doesnt cut it for this near nympho)) So we went our seperate
ways. Being generaly good friends and not waiting till
we hated each other to make this decision we stayed close
friends. Now the ...
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BEWARE 19/6/2004
I dated this guy I met here on AdultFriendFinder. I figured since he was a
cop, he would be OK. Well after dating him for awhile i soon
learned he wasnt OK. In fact he had major issues, psychological
issues to say the least.
We made dates then he wouldnt show up, or he would call me
and cancel it at 2am when we were suppose to meet at 11pm
Ok so I though "he had to work late, no biggy"
But then he ...
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lifes a bitch 19/6/2004
life a bitch then you meet one think it going be good....then
they shit on you and then it really becomes a bitch!!!
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How do you know when it's over.....before it's over? 18/6/2004
I'd like to have everyone and anyone list a few of the
signs that let them know when a relationship is over. I mean....besides
the obvious ones like "she said it is". I'm
talking about the suttle precursers that signal the end
of a relationship.
I think one of the signs is fighting about the same things.
In my experience I've notice that relationships have
gone sour after arguing ...
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