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6dusty2 74H
20 publicações
29/10/2020 12:07 pm

Ya I read it and your right I have lots to learn so please tell me more thanks


Skinfix 79H  
179 publicações
29/10/2020 2:20 pm

So much depends on our childhood experience re our attitude toward sex.
It can range from early shaming to families that engage in incest.
Most are probably somewhere in between. So there is a wide range of how we deal with sex, most of it imprinted on us.

Feel free to vote agree or disagree. That should be interesting. Thank you.


Tmptrzz 61M  
107039 publicações
29/10/2020 3:09 pm

This is one area I have no issue with, but thanks for sharing the inforamtion about the article. You should of copy and pasted here hun so everyone could read it. As there are many people could use this kind of information..

I hope your Thursday evening is a relaxing one..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


justaguyinalaska 57H
879 publicações
29/10/2020 3:39 pm

Not to always be the contrarian, but this article not only oversimplifies, it gets it wrong. By way of constructive criticism, I offer a few word substitutions:

1. "Fear", not "shame". The data are depressing: 81% of women have experienced sexual harassment; 51% unwelcome sexual touching; and 27% sexual assault. Fear is such a powerful driver (or stifler) of emotions. So many (most?!) of these horrible experiences are internalized and repressed because stigmatization corrupts any opportunity for empathy or justice. As such, the subconscious coalesces these abuses around a disinterest in sex, made even more miserable in the good-faith (but still mechanical and mirthless) efforts to sexually satisfy someone with whom they aspire to build a genuine relationship.

2. "Trust", not "comfortable with desire". Although I have often written about sexual repression in USA (same as NOT "comfortable"), we can only open ourselves up to new sexual experiences with lovers with whom we have established trust. The sexual stereotypes (especially male domination) that remain so pervasive in this society effectively smother notions of trust and communication. Ironically, I believe men can (and should!) make this the focus of our relationship-building; because the *game* is currently rigged in our favor, we have an opportunity (a duty?) to *evolve* and show leadership in establishing trust as a foundation block.

3. "Pleasure principle", not "biological nature of sex". My father liked to joke to my two brothers and me (when we were all adults) that he and my mom "had sex three times". Sexual desire may have begun as a tool for propagation of the species, but it is now appreciated as much more beneficial and essential than simply making babies. (Consensual) lovemaking is neither "illegal, immoral nor fattening". Let's recognize it for it is: a pleasure that stands right up there with ice cream, chocolate and first class air travel.

All that said, I welcome any article that stimulates some open-minded thinking and contributes to better communication and sex positive relationships.


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